Three unconscious patterns — within each of us.
Three unconscious patterns of thinking, belief and worldview shape how we meet our differences: religion, race, class, culture, gender, disability, sexual orientation and politics. These create conflict and limitations in our lives and organizations — and awareness and integration of their assets within each of us holds the key to unlocking our purpose, connection, effectiveness, and empowerment.
How do you meet difference?
Each pattern has both assets and liabilities. The goal is to know your primary pattern — and learn to integrate the assets of all three.
Sensitivity · "Scarecrow"
Mind · Understanding · Brain
I value differences, intelligence, open-mindedness and understanding. I experience the world and myself primarily through the brain. I treat others the way they would like to be treated.
Limitations:
I don't want to offend so I can feel stuck or confused. I can be patronizing as I try to get others to "get it," to "understand like me." I can also get exhausted as this struggle seems hopeless.
- Fear response: freeze
- Politics: tends liberal
- Archetype: Magician
Oneness · "Tin Person"
Heart · Connection · Unity
I devalue differences in favor of our common humanity, unity, and collaboration. I experience the world and myself primarily through the heart. I treat others the way I would like to be treated. I see myself as a bridge builder.
Limitations:
I can over-value sameness and fail to impact in alignment with my intentions. I tend to avoid conflict.
- Fear response: flight
- Politics: tends moderate
- Archetype: Lover
Strength · "Lion"
Gut · Courage · Power
I evaluate differences and value courage, loyalty, decisiveness, clarity, protection, self-sacrifice, and winning at all cost. I believe in the "survival of the fittest." I experience myself and the world primarily through my gut.
Limitations:
I seek dominance over others, and can create enemies. I can be overly combative.
- Fear response: fight
- Politics: tends conservative
- Archetype: Warrior
Glinda the Good Witch — The Sovereign.
The more we come to know our primary pattern (its assets and liabilities) and how to integrate or leverage the assets of all three patterns, the more we unleash our effectiveness: always within us first. From here, we increasingly become a catalyst for solidarity and meaningful change across differences in our family, organization, community, and world.
Location
The crown of the head.
Archetype
The Sovereign — turning away from identity toward engagement.
The result
Joyful empowerment, abundance, connection, and clarity.
Learn more & measure your patterns.
Read the full model in-depth, review the North Carolina State validation study, or take the assessment to map your own patterns.
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